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Are you recording your family events?

This video gets me.  There I am, trying to record every little scene I can in my kids’ lives.  I hope you’re doing the same.  As my parents constantly remind me: they’ll be gone before you know it!  To that end, here are several ideas I try to keep in mind when recording family events:

1. Get a good camera

I am cheap frugal, so I am loath to spend lots of money on nice video cameras; however, you do want to produce quality video, so you should be prepared to drop a few more smackers for it.  I definitely recommend a camera capable of recording video in high definition (HD).  Also, think about the media on which cameras record: I find ones that record on SD cards to be very convenient.  Recording on your smart phone is fine, too, and I often mix video recorded on my smart phone with video I’ve recorded with my regular camera; nevertheless, video cameras tend to offer many more useful features above what you get with your smart phone.

2. Film everything

It’s a given to film birthday parties, graduations, and plays, but you never know when some seemingly insignificant event might become a long-lasting memory.  Think about some of those smaller events: carving pumpkins, a quiet family dinner, your kids playing a game and laughing together, walking the property of a family farm, etc.  These moments in time may never repeat themselves, so think about recording them!

3. Think about your film technique

I did some camera work in college, but for the most part I’m a complete amateur.  [Side note: I should probably take a class or two to improve my technique.]  For my family videos, though, one technique I use quite often is to keep my camera in tight on my subject for the majority of my shots.  For example, when my child is playing basketball or soccer, I’ll keep my camera trained tight on him instead of holding a wide shot of the field or following the ball from player to player.  With wide shots, your viewers–grandparents and other friends and family–may not even be able to pick out your kids from the 10-20 others on the field, let alone see the skills your child exhibits.  When you follow the ball around, you’re usually filming other children the majority of the time: footage you’ll likely discard, anyway.  So, I generally keep my camera trained in tight on my children.  When they make a great play, I’m already capturing the full lifespan of the play and can easily edit that into my final product.  The one drawback of this technique is that I usually miss great plays by my kids’ teammates.  In general, that doesn’t worry me, but every-so-often a parent will ask me if I captured their child’s buzzer-beater and I reluctantly reply in the negative.

4. Take notes

If you’ve captured an important moment–say, your child’s first goal or some great award or honor–make a note of it somewhere.  If possible, record not only the date and time, but even the name of the video file and timestamp within the file.  That way, when you set down to create a final product (see #10 below), it will be easy for you to find the event and edit it into your product.

5. Keep a steady hand

Few things are worse than watching a home video that gives you motion sickness.  On more than one occasion, my wife and children have filmed events with their phones that I wanted to include in one of our family movies but refrained since the shots were so shaky–which is another reason to not rely solely on your smart phone for your video recorder.  A lot of the nicer video cameras include stabilization controls, which can be helpful, especially with the tight shots.  In addition, I recommend bringing along a decent tripod and/or monopod.

6. Backup, backup, backup

Don’t let all your hard work go to waste: backup early, backup often.  I try never to go more than a few weeks without downloading all the video I’ve taken and back it up to my different storage devices.  This goes for the pictures I take, as well.  High definition files take up a lot of space, so be prepared to have ample storage available.

7. Keep spares handy

I bought a second battery for my video camera that I keep charged and nearby whenever my primary battery gets too low.  I also keep spare, formatted SD cards handy in case I fill up my current card.

8. Go-Pro?  Drone?

I own neither a go-pro nor a drone, but I think either device would definitely introduce a unique flavor to your home videos.  I could certainly see recording a fun bike stroll, roller coaster ride, or rafting adventure with a go-pro.  We have two farms in the family that would be fun to document with a drone and even just recording a few flyovers of my suburban house might be fun video to have years from now.

9. Don’t always be the man behind the camera

Even if no one else is lining up to take over as cameraman, try to get in front of the camera every once-in-a-while.

10. Make a polished product

Having raw footage of your various family activities is great, but why not stretch your creative muscles and make a real video out of it?  For more than 10 years, every Christmas, I meticulously parse through a year’s worth of video footage and create a 60+ minute video recapping all our various activities.  In the early years, I used some of the free tools from Microsoft to create my videos and eventually burn them to DVD (complete with disk art drawn by the kids) that I’d hand out to the extended family.  As Microsoft has deprecated those tools, I moved to the CyberLink family of products.

Like my Christmas Letter, I always press multiple copies of my family movies so that I can eventually gift them to the kids; however, I recently decided to stop burning DVDs altogether, instead, simply creating an MP4 of the finished product that I can upload to my media server.  Eventually, whenever I gift our old Christmas Letters to my kids, I’ll also gift a thumb drive of two decades of family movies.  How cool will that be?

My cup overfloweth

I feel like I’m always running at 100 miles-per-hour helping fulfill all the various activities of my family. This week in particular was tough as two of my kids were in a play that had them at school until 9pm each night and three showtimes on Thursday, Friday, and Saturday. All these commitments can easily drain my free time of any personal accomplishment. Certainly, I’m spending time with the kids: but more in the capacity of taxi driver and activity observer than anything else. So, I’m always keen on finding ways to squeeze out a few minutes of productivity here-and-there. Here are a few ways that help accomplish that:

1. Bring the kindle

Wherever I go, I always try to bring my kindle with me. I keep it loaded with hundreds of books: from non-fiction books on the ridiculous number of topics I’m interested in to fiction books to just entertain. The kindle is my number-one, go-to item to try to find some sort of accomplishment when I’m out-and-about.

2. Listen to podcasts

I’m frequently criss-crossing town to and from activities, so I try to keep my phone filled with podcasts from which I can learn and try to make the driving somewhat productive.

3. Keep the car stocked with bars and water

Much of the time, I’m too busy to stop at some fast food restaurant for refreshment, but even if time permitted, it’s cheaper and healthier to just keep my car stocked with water and protein bars or other relatively healthy food that won’t spoil or melt.

4. Maintain and manage a to-do list

In the must-see movie Dead Men Don’t Wear Plaid, the main character is a detective trying to solve the kidnapping of noted cheese scientist, Dr. Forrest. Dr. Forrest has left different clues in the form of lists that the detective has to discover and then deduce the meaning. These lists are everywhere: torn off corners of dollar bills in desk drawers, one is inside a woman’s brooch, another is hidden inside the lid of a jar of coffee. Unfortunately, I find that I’m a lot like Dr. Forrest: I write to-do lists on envelopes or post-it notes only to misplace them and begin anew. Lately, I’ve started using Google Keep in hopes I can be less like the good doctor. Regardless, having a to-do list handy to review and work on during your various excursions can be helpful.

5. Take notes on your bright ideas

Occasionally, I’ll have a half-baked idea on a new blog post or entrepreneurial endeavor: making sure I have tools on hand to write down these brilliant ideas is important. To that end, I always keep pens and small notebooks in the car–that comes in very handy during parent/teacher conferences for note taking. Also, I try to take notes electronically as much as possible. I used to use Evernote quite a bit for that effort, but lately I’ve switched to using Google Docs. Both work great on your smart phone.

6. Read blogs

Like my addiction to podcasts, I subscribe to hundreds of blogs covering my wide variety of interests. Back in the day, I used Google Reader to aggregate the blogs I like to read, but when that was discontinued, I switched to Feedly. Feedly works great on your phone, too!

7. Wear clothes with lots of pockets

How do you effectively carry all the material that aid your on-the-go productivity–kindle, phone, pens, paper, etc.–particularly when you have to march deep into a sports venue, school, or Boy Scout camp? Pockets, I tell you! I own several pairs of cargo pants and shorts that help me haul around the items I need. I’m a big fan of ScottEVest, as well, and own a few of their vests, coats, and jackets that each come with dozens of pockets for storing essentials.

8. Keep a full gym bag and towel in the car

Going to the gym is an important release for me and I’m able to do it less and less as the family’s activities increase. Most days I have to plan out a few days in advance when I can hit the gym, but practices are occasionally canceled, so it’s a good idea to always keep my gym clothes in the car in case I can slip in a workout.

9. Keep portable batteries, charging cables, and related items handy

As a few of these tips rely on electronic devices, I find it helpful to keep portable batteries, cables, and other paraphernalia around and available in case one of your devices gets low on juice. Obviously, keep your devices as charged as possible and don’t forget to charge your portable batteries, as well!

10. Think about other “everyday carry” items

“Preppers” will sometimes discuss the topic of “everyday carry” (EDC) items. Items like flashlights, band-aids, tweezers, multi-tools, and the like. Eyeglass screws come loose, splinters happen, and small items fall into dark spaces. Compiling EDC items and keeping larger kits like first aid kits in the car can help fix an unexpected problem that might otherwise throw off your schedule and undermine your on-the-go work.

Tips to improving your vocabulary

My oldest child has engaged in the college quest: meditating on what profession she might want to pursue then reverse-engineering that to an associated major and ideal college to support that vision, visiting schools, and, most importantly, studying for and taking the standardized tests–ACT and SAT.

On more than one occasion, she’s complained about the English and/or writing portions of the tests, bemoaning the fact that these sections make use of advanced vocabulary than she’s unused to. For many years, I’ve tried to press on her the importance of expanding her vocabulary; yet, she continues to ignore my appeals (as seems to be our standard father/daughter dynamic). If she would ever listen to me, here are ten practical tips I would encourage her to employ to increase her command of the English language.

1. Go looking for great words on the Internet

As you’d expect, the Internet is a great resource for improving your vocabulary. There are word-of-the-day sites that you might visit daily for new material, but there are also plenty of “themed” lists to work your way through, as well. Here are a few that I’ve found educational:

2. Install a word-of-the-day application on your phone

Why go to the words when they can come to you? There are a number of free word-of-the-day mobile applications out there. Currently, I’m using Dictionary.com’s app. One nice feature of this app is its notifications: at 8:00am every day, the app sends me a notification with the new word. If I like the new word (or any other word I might look up in the app), I can add it to my “favorites”–so, I always have a list handy of some of my favorite words.

 

3. Get a word-of-the-day calendar

There are a variety of calendar and planner-type products out there aiming to help grow your vocabulary!  If you prefer more of a traditional interface from which to learn, this just might be your ticket.

 

4. Get a dictionary and/or thesaurus

Maybe this is my pre-Internet brain talking, but a dictionary and thesaurus should definitely be part of your library. Probably your kids’, too!

 

5. Read challenging books

Words only work when they’re uttered in proper context–and reveal your ignorance when used otherwise. What better way to learn a new word than through the pen of the professionals? Read the likes of Umberto Eco, Gore Vidal, and David Stockman, among others, to deepen your communication options.

 

6. Listen to challenging podcasts

There are podcasts, like the Grammar Girl podcast, dedicated to improving your communication skills. After that, merely listening to intelligent people discussing challenging topics can be quite beneficial. For example, just the other day, Tom Woods reintroduced me to the wonderful word, “vicissitudes“. Podcasts, then, can be an excellent way to both learn more about a particular topic and extend your vocabulary.

 

7. Listen to word-of-the-day apps on your Amazon Echo or Google Home devices

To my Amazon daily briefing, I’ve included the Peppercorn Media word of the day skill. Every school morning, just before venturing out to the bus stop with one of my children, we listen to the daily briefing and acquire a new word of the day. Thus, we get our word-of-the-day in a quick and entertaining way.

 

8. Watch challenging movies or television

Personally, I find movies and television predominantly a waste of time, but if you must imbibe, try to make it media that positively augments your intellect. I find science fiction and historical works occasionally useful for this purpose.  Star Trek, The Martian, and Amistad are a few creations that seem to work in this regard. However, I did learn the word “flibbertigibbet” from the highly underrated Joe Versus the Volcano.

 

9. Force yourself to use your new words in conversation

Stephen Covey wrote, “to learn and not to do is really not to learn. To know and not to do is really not to know.” It’s not enough to learn new and interesting words, but to actually incorporate them into your regular dialog. Similar to martial arts where you repeat a punch or kick hundreds of times until it becomes part of your muscle memory, you must also invoke your new words multiple times so they become easy go-to options in your conversations and writings.

 

10. Write more, forcing yourself to use your new words

As with enhancing your conversations, littering your writing with your new words can help ingrain those new options into your writing toolbox. Also, look for additional writing opportunities like the school newspaper and yearbook (and even blogging) to help further hone your craft.

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